Sometimes you don't get over it, you just learn to live with it because you have no other choice. Because it's not your decision to make. Because it's not only up to you. Because...
And it gets better in time. At first you feel the pain each second, then after some time it switches to one minute, hour, day, week, month... Then it stops hurting. Or you simply become the pain.
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