This thing is all over social networks. People like it, share it, pin it, tweet... It's spreading like a virus!
"I'm not single. I'm in a long standing relationship with fun and freedom."
Are you really?! Does everything really come to this?! Do people really think that the only way to have fun and be free is to be single? Well, if having fun means having non-emotional one-night purely physical sex every once in a while and with different person every time then one must be single to have fun like that. If freedom is to go out, get wasted and have noone by your side to tell you how wrong it is then - yes, you need to be single to be free. And if you think like this you should stay single forever!
But let me ask you something... Did you ever get wasted and had someone by your side to take you home and cure your hangover the next day and maybe even the day after that? Or did you ever do this for someone special and then tease them about it later?
When was the last time you made love to someone with all kinds of emotions and feelings involved? Actually, did you ever do that? Making love is so much more than just having an intercourse, it's more than just connecting two bodies in some physical game. Have you ever got to know the feeling of completely connecting with someone who loves and respects you as a whole? Someone who cares about every piece of you, about your mind, body and soul... Someone who completes you in every way... If you have, SINGLE is the last thing you want to be because being single is just a shallow way of knowing the real meaning of fun and freedom.
Let me take a stab at this: the reason people don't take time to find someone who cares about them "mind, body and soul", is because that would leave them vulnerable and exposed. To be known so thoroughly is to be open to all kinds of hurt...It's much easier to keep things on a superficial level, touching, kissing, having sex. Actually, with all the emphasis on having someone physically, it is actually the emotional and psychic connection that is more important, and that more difficult to build and maintain.
ReplyDeleteNo wonder people don't value it. It's hard, it's risky, I may get hurt. Better to stick with "fun and freedom." Because one thing you don't want in this world is to get hurt. You may end up as some kind of a loser, jeez.
Well, not me. I'd rather hurt than feel nothing at all. I don't care if I fail thousands of times. I know it will be worth it. :)
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